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Need some adventure reading? A Missionary Book List

Posted by Loni on August 31, 2006

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O you need some ideas of real-life books to read with your children?  How about stories of missionaries who have put their lives in jeopardy for Jesus?  Here are some books we will be reading, that a friend of mine recommended.

Book_4 End of the Spear by Steve Saint. "Steve Saint was only five years old when his father was brutally killed by Waodani warriors, men from the most savage culture ever known. But in a story almost too amazing to be true, Steve eventually comes to know –- and even love – the very ones who drove the spears into his father’s body. Decades after the spearing, Steve and his family make the difficult choice to leave behind a comfortable life in the United States and return to the jungle to live among the Waodani people. In End of the Spear, Steve embarks on an adventure story that is part Indiana Jones, part time travel, part romance, and part spiritual quest. Striving to mesh his two very different worlds, Steve finally learns the truth surrounding his father’s tragic death. As he comes to terms with the details of that day, Steve must face a new challenge: teaching the Waodani people to live without him. Also the inspiration for a major motion picture, Steve’s incredible true story is one of daunting challenges, agonizing losses, and thrilling rewards – all scripted by the One who weaves together the story of every life." (from back cover) 338 pages [All of our family wishes we could read the 350 pages the editor cut out of Steve’s 700 original pages, as after reading this book, it’s hard to find another one as good!]

Book_7 High Adventure in Colombia by Chad & Pat Stendal, missionaries to Kogi Indians in Columbia. They started out with Wycliffe in the 50’s or 60’s if I remember correctly but felt called up into the Kogi tribe and were totally independent of any mission society. Their son Russell was later kidnapped by guerillas and they are still there in Colombia today. "I realized the chief was dying. A debilitating disease had been devastating his frail body for some eight months. Now, he had stopped eating. His neck and ankles were swollen, indicating that the end was not far off. In spite of the Indians’ distrust of outsiders and their reputation for poisoning their enemies, my friend Santiago had brought me to this remote village as a last effort to save the chief, but one look at the sick man convinced me that it was too late for my limited medical skills. Trembling with weakness, the chief struggled to pull himself up to a sitting position in his hammock in order to receive me. ‘I am in control here,’ he told me. ‘I bring the sun up, I bring the dry season, I hold this valley in the palm of my hand. You, too, are in the palm of my hand.’ Then with a sinister, upward sweeping motion, he closed his hand into a fist and held it up in a menacing manner, indicating that he had me in his hand and that I had better heal him. Suddenly, I knew that if he died, I would not get out of the valley alive." (from back cover) 381 pp. The Stendals also have written The Guerrillas Have Taken our Son.

Book_8 Rescue the Captors by Russell Stendal, written from within a Marxist guerrilla camp in Colombia, the story of a kidnapped jungle pilot who realized the captors were the real captives and he has since been ministering to the guerillas. Russell grew up in Colombia in a missionary family and has continued to live there as an adult. "The terror began on August 14, 1983. American bush pilot Russell Stendal, on routine business, landed his plane in a remote Colombian village. Gunfire exploded throughout the town and within minutes Russell’s 142 day ordeal had begun. The guerrilla fighters explained that this was a kidnapping for ransom and that he would be held until payment was made. Held at gunpoint deep in the jungle and with little else to occupy his time, Russell began to write. He told the story of his life and kept a record of his experience in the guerrilla camp. His ‘book’ became a bridge to the men who held him and now serves as the basis for this incredible true story of how God’s love penetrated a physical and ideological jungle." (from back cover) 250 pp.

Book_2 Deliver the Ransom Alone by Verda J Glick. The story of a missionary’s kidnapping, Christians’ fervent prayers, and God’s faithfulness. "Verda was concerned. Eli still wasn’t home. When Ernest’s pickup pulled into the driveway, followed by Juan’s, she knew something was very, very wrong. She rushed to the door. ‘What’s the matter?’ she called fearfully. ‘Mama,’ Ernest said as he strode towards her, ‘There’s a problem.’ Kidnapping was a nagging possibility in politically troubled El Salvador in the early 1990’s. One night it became a reality to the Eli Glick family. But this is more than a gripping missionary story. It is a thrilling testimony to the power of prayer. As word sped from family to church, across Central American and into the States and other countries, many fervent prayers were offered – prayers for Eli’s deliverance, for his kidnappers, and for the honor and glory of God through it all." (from back cover) 174 pp.

Book_3 Guerrilla Hostage: 810 Days in Captivity, by Denise Marie Siino. The dramatic story of Ray Rising’s ordeal in the Colombian jungle. "Ray Rising’s story is a page-turner that will take you to the edge of your imagination with intrigue and excitement," wrote Ken Wales, producer of the Christy television series. "Guerrilla Hostage is the triumphant story of one man’s faith, a family’s hope, and God’s never-ending love. Ray Rising never gave in to despair, fear, and loneliness during his 810 days in captivity. Instead, this missionary grew closer to his Lord. He boldly established relationships and shared his faith with the Colombian guerrillas who held him hostage. If you love a gripping story, experience for yourself the shadowy jungles, the overwhelming obstacles, and the ultimate triumphs of Rising’s ordeal, and with him learn how to live alive of integrity despite harsh and frightening circumstances.." (from back cover) 239 pp

Book_5 If God Should Choose: The Authorized Story of Jim and Roni Bowers by Kristen Stagg. The authorized story of Jim and Roni Bowers. "Perhaps you’ll recall hearing some portion of Jim Bowers’ story, carried by the news media in the days following April 20, 2001: Jim and Veronica (Roni" Bowers, their young son Cory, and infant daughter Charity were flying back to Iquitos, Peru, with pilot and co-worker Kevin Donaldson. They were less than an hour from home when a Peruvian Air Force A-37 fighter appeared briefly behind and off to one side of the Cessna and then the other. Before the missionaries could find out what the air force might want with them, bullets slammed into the missionary plane. As they plummeted toward the rain forest, Kevin prayed that he could glide to the water and land the floatplane…"  221 pp

Book_1 In The Presence of My Enemies by Gracia Burnham with Dean Merrill. A gripping account of the kidnapping of American missionaries and their year of terror in the Philippine jungle. "For American missionaries Martin and Gracia Burnham, what started out as a relaxing, once-in-a-lifetime anniversary getaway at an exotic island resort turned into one of the most horrific nightmares imaginable. Kidnapped by the Abu Sayyaf, a terrorist group with ties to Osama bin Laden, the Burnhams were snatched away from friends and family and thrust into a life on the run in the Philippine jungle. During a perilous year in captivity, they face near starvation, constant exhaustion, frequent gun battles, coldhearted murder – and intense soul-searching about God Who sometimes seemed to have forgotten them. In this gripping firsthand account of faith, love, and struggle in the face of unnervingly casual brutality, you’ll go behind the scenes of a real-life drama, told in gritty detail by the least likely survivor. Whatever the struggles of your life, you’ll find encouragement and hope in this refreshingly honest story of a yearlong battle with the darkness that inhabits the human heart." (from back cover) 340 pp.

Book_6 Lords of the Earth by Don Richardson. "In Irian Jaya’s remote Snow Mountains lived the Yali – cannibals who called themselves ‘lords of the earth.’ Yet in terror and bondage they served women-hating, child-despising gods. Bowing to the kembu spirits, Yali men rendered fearful obedience, even executing children. When Missionary Stan Dale dared to enter the domain of this stone-age people, he embarked on a course that would swiftly bring him, his wife, and his companions into a bloody life-or-death struggle with the Yali’s complex religion. He did not know what chilling hazards awaited him, nor at what cost the Yali would at last know the love of their Redeemer."

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Book_9This summer we have read Saddam’s Secrets by General Georges Sada and another Iraq story called Escape in Iraq: The Thomas Hamill Story by Thomas Hamill, the contractor who was kidnapped there.  They are FULL of adventure, but not really missionary stories

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Pregnancy Update – 10 Weeks

Posted by Loni on August 30, 2006

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BOUT the size of a kidney bean now, this wee little one has continued making me very sick!  I’ve lost 20 pounds (which is the good part) but it’s been very hard being continually sick.  It is not "morning sickness" but "all day sickness".  Just about any and everything makes me gag. I still crave mostly protein things.  Sugar and chocolate do not set well at all.  Our OB suggested we have a Nuchal Translucency test, which is measurements done by ultra sound that can usually detect Down’s syndrome and trisomy 18.  At first we were doing to have this done, but as the last several weeks have gone by, both my husband and I have had much more of a peace about this baby, and really did not feel there is a need.  It won’t change our mind as far as keeping the baby, so we don’t need all the worry throughout a pregnancy either.  I know of one mom personally who is older than I am that has a beautiful little girl with Down’s, and since have realized how many moms are having healthy babies at my age and older.  He or she will be loved, no matter what!  Thankfully our OB was fine with us not doing this test and we weren’t pressured with it.

It’s a daily task to find something that tastes good.  Most meats taste good, as long as it’s not greasy.  Chicken fajitas remain a favorite with lots of guacamole!  Sleep has also been a major requirement.  It doesn’t seem like I can get enough!  The hard part is when I wake up I feel good, but I know as soon as I start to move about, the nausea returns.  Hopefully some of this will subside in a month or so.

"For you created my inmost being: you knit me together in my mother’s womb. For so many wonders I thank you, a wonder am I… When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body." (Ps.139:13-16)

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In Other Words: What are we passing on?

Posted by Loni on August 29, 2006

    Christian Women Online
     This Week’s Quote: 
"I thought about the whole notion of ‘reproduction’, and what it really means to replicate yourself. Is it merely about the passing on of eyes and chins and hair color? Or is it, rather, the replication of the heart? Do we leave a bigger mark by passing on our genes, or our thoughts?"
   ~ Shannon Woodward~ author of Inconceivable: Finding Peace in the Midst of Infertility

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VEN THOUGH it has been almost 20 years since I had my first baby, I will never forget when I was finally alone with him, the awe of gazing on this little miracle of life, and whispering to him, "I am your mama."  Not only was I a first-time mother, but this precious little one was the first time I knew and touched someone blood related to me.  Did he have my eyes or my mouth?  Will someone say he looks like me? 

I was adopted at 6 months of age, and through my growing up years, I often wondered who I looked like, where did I get my ugly crooked toes from and was there someone out there that "really" looked like me?  I was often told I looked like my dad that adopted me, but mainly because we both had dark eyes and hair.  Adoption was not as common when I was growing up, and so it was kept hushed, and I’d have to go along and agree.

As the years have gone by, I see the passions of my adoptive parents I "inherited" along with their struggles and things I said I would "never do or say". And here with me now are nine children, who have some of my physical likenesses (yes, even the crooked ugly toes), some of my passions, quirks, and failures.  Oh, it’s the heart issues, though, that are the scariest.  Often my husband and I will agree that the things that frustrate us the most with our children, are our mirror reflections. 

Birth parents do pass on their "genes" and likenesses to their children.  I met my birth parents after our first child was born.  I do look a lot like my birth dad, and a sister a few years younger than I, who at that time could almost pass as my twin.  I found out my birth mother loved "candy corn"  as much as I did, and we both love crafts and can be cluttery individuals.  My mom that adopted me was very organized, not a crafty person, and did not like candy corn.  Yet, my adoptive mom had a heart for hurting people (especially the elderly), and impatience, both of which I picked up. 

It does not matter anymore which of my physical features our children have, or my husbands.  But the heart issues certainly matter.  Do they see my struggles and sins, and make conscience decisions to "not be like that"?    Do they see our faith in God, or is it just words?  Is our faith, becoming their own personal faith?  How much of me are they mirroring?  Will they mirror just the "bad stuff" or our passions and convictions? 

I am thankful God’s "mercies are new every morning" and pray that my children will learn to mirror Jesus.

This writing is in participation with Christian Women On-Line and the weekly In Other Words . . . ."  Click the graphic to read other women’s interpretations of this quote.

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The Beauty of Learning

Posted by Loni on August 28, 2006

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HE Beauty of Learning. A child learns her first word, or takes her first step.  What a thrill!  What a beautiful part of learning.  We have two children who have just learned to ride a bicycle and what joy they show in this new accomplishment of learning, peddling up and down the driveway and around the yard.  This new beauty of learning will give them such memorable times together.

With school around the corner for many, it’s learning new concepts to give them a foundation for the rest of their lives in the work field or at home.  I love the earlier grades especially in homeschooling, seeing the delight in a child’s eyes as they learn to read, read their first sentence and then first little book.  But it doesn’t stop here, as they develop their reading, and learn from their reading other new concepts.  They learn God’s truths reading the Bible.  They learn to make wonderful bread, reading a recipe. The beauty of learning to read music  can bring about a beautiful musician on the piano, learning to write music to writing an inspiring, touching song.

Yet, the most beautiful part of learning as a parent, for me, is when our children one by one have learned of God’s love, His gift of Salvation and then how they can accept this gift and grasp the simpleness of becoming a child of God.  Oh, the Beauty of Learning.  I am thankful the Beauty of Learning does not end. 

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eBay Prohibits Teacher Editions

Posted by Loni on August 28, 2006

Would you believe that eBay is no longer allowing the sale of teacher edition textbooks for auction and lumps these teacher editions of schoolbooks into the ‘illegal, dangerous, offensive, or potentially infringing" catagory!  YIKES! 

"As you may know, eBay does not permit items that are illegal, dangerous, offensive, or potentially infringing. Additionally, eBay has just recently made the decision to prohibit the sale of Teacher’s Editions of textbooks and solutions manuals that are intended solely for use by teachers. Since eBay strives to be a level-playing field, all Teacher’s Edition textbooks, manuals and guides will be covered under this policy. Unfortunately, home schooling Teacher’s Editions are not exempt from this policy and this policy will apply to all grade levels."

WorldNetDaily posted this on their website on Sunday, August, 27th.  Be sure to read this entire article, along with links to eBay to leave an opinion on this issue, and links to other auctionsites which will allow listing teacher editions.

Looks like we homeschool parents have a writing assignment!  Write to eBay!

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SATURDAY SCAVENGER HUNT: Blue

Posted by Loni on August 26, 2006

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This picture is just from a few weeks ago.  Our three boys had the priviledge of flying with a man from our church, and I took this picture when they flew over our house. 

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MUSIC REVIEW: Worship Songs

Posted by Loni on August 25, 2006

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his two-disc CD set, America’s Choice 30, was a real priviledge to receive, and I have been blessed to listen to it often, over the last several weeks. These were not just "any songs" put on this CD, but the producers, Cool Springs Records, surveyed 150,000 churches and 100 top worship leaders, and compiled these 30  as the most frequently sung, best-loved worship songs in America.  You will find a good variety of music – some more upbeat, and while the next song may be more mild.  The musical arrangements, both vocal and instrument, were done very professionally, with no particular voice or instrument being overbearing.  For me, I have really enjoyed having this worship music play in our home, and find myself singing with it often.

Visit the Cool Springs Records website, for the full list of the 30 songs, along with MP3 samples of each song. 

I give this CD five stars.    *****

This CD review is in participation with Active Christian Media.

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Keep Homeschooling SIMPLE When Starting Out

Posted by Loni on August 24, 2006

Hi Loni,
I am trying to start homeschooling w/ my 5 yr old and am at a complete loss on where to start, what program to go w/ there are so many options! I was going to just send her to kindergarten. but where I live in NH you have to pay for it. so I figured I would try homeschooling and see how it went from there. I also have a 3 year old son and a 5 month old daughter. Obviously you have had some practice w/ juggling time w/ the kids, school, time w/God and your husband. I definitely need some pointers. So if there is anything you could help me w/ that would be great.
Thanks, Starr

It’s always neat to see new families starting out, even if it is a trial period, for homeschooling.  I hope for Starr, that she loves it so much, she will continue!  I did share some most recently on  08/18/06 but will give some more basic ideas.

First, don’t overwhelm yourself.  Homeschooling does not have to be patterned after a typical classroom setting.  You are mainly working with one child, where a classroom teacher may have 20+.  At the most starting out only spend a couple of hours, if that much.  One book I recommend before even beginning, is Better Late Than Early by Raymond & Dorothy Moore.  You might even be able to find it in your library.  The authors emphasize not "pushing" schooling early, and even recommend waiting with formal education until 8 or 9 years of age! There are also three booklets together by Ruth Beechick called, The Three R’s which is a real must-have for any family starting out.  A reviewer on Amazon shared on these books:

The great thing about these little (28-30 pages) guides is that they truly give you all you need to start successfully homeschooling your K-3rd Grader in 3 core areas: reading, Language (Grammar) and Math. They are jammed packed with details and wonderful "how-tos", not rhetoric. I imagine that you can design a whole year’s curriculum with just this packet, and a collection of very good books. Do yourself a favor, ditch the urge to buy those expensive curriculums with bells and whistles. Buy this first. I just wish I found this series BEFORE I spent hundreds of dollars on buying and selling things I didn’t want or need. When you have finished this, I suggest you read Beechick’s You Can Teach Your Child Successfully for more wisdom on schooling 4th-8th Grade.

Lah You can just use those three booklets if you to keep it simple and teach your child the basics.  I used these booklets, but I also enjoyed having another "curriculum" type handbook called, Learning at Home: Preschool & Kindergarten: A Christian Parent’s Guide With Day-By-Day Lesson Plans Using the Library As a Resource.  I absolutely loved doing this book with my oldest two.  It is harder now to do, because it does requite a lot of time, especially getting books from the library, and preparing lessons.  However, even your 3 year old would probably pick up on a lot.  It comes from a Christian viewpoint, having Bible lessons, and begins with creation.  There are a lot of art activities as well. However, this is very structured, like a school classroom, and sometimes has too much to do in one day.  Use what you can.  The ideas for books are great.  Don’t force yourself to get it all done. 

I hope this gives you some ideas to start out with, Starr.  Don’t overwhelm yourself with getting too much or trying to do too much in one day.  Enjoy this extra year with your child, and maybe, you will find out you love it so much, you will continue to homeschool.  Please let me know what you decide to do, and how it is going. 

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Homeschooling & Diapers

Posted by Loni on August 23, 2006

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UR youngest, just over three years of age, is about 75% potty trained. In the last 19 1/2 years, we have not had a break in diapers – and at one time even had three in diapers at one time.  I had been looking forward to finally having no more diapers to change . . . but now . . . I am actually getting excited to changing a little bottom again!  We have mostly used disposables, but used a diaper service when we had our twins, and when we have gone through rougher financial times, I have used cloth diapers. 

So what does homeschooling and diapers have to do with each other? I have decided to add making our own cloth diapers into our schooling!  The younger ones can learn to read some simple patterns, and do some very easy straight stitching.  And, if they make a mistake, what will it harm?  No one inspects hems and seams on diapers!  I have been searching for different ideas and patterns.  One site I have found is simply titled, Sew Your Own Diapers, and gives free patterns for a Quick & Easy Fitted Diaper, and an All in One Diaper (includes soaker & covering).  Another on-line gal, Cindie, shares her story of how she began with making cloth diapers, also has a free fitted diaper pattern, AND a wool butt sweater!

A real plus with this site, is the gal gives the option of buying instructions and patterns for ten diaper patterns.  I decided to buy this, to not only help teach the girls to sew, but I just LOVE diapering a new little baby!  It will be fun to let the stack of these little diapers increase.  As several of these sites have shown, we can use material we have around the house – old towels, t-shirts, receiving blankets, flannel nighties, etc. 

This is just another one of the wonderful things about homeschooling and incorporating our situations and needs into our education.  Presently our kids are helping "grow the baby" making mom her cravings.  HomeEc class begins September 5th!

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Homeschooling & Diapers

Posted by Loni on August 23, 2006

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UR youngest, just over three years of age, is about 75% potty trained. In the last 19 1/2 years, we have not had a break in diapers – and at one time even had three in diapers at one time.  I had been looking forward to finally having no more diapers to change . . . but now . . . I am actually getting excited to changing a little bottom again!  We have mostly used disposables, but used a diaper service when we had our twins, and when we have gone through rougher financial times, I have used cloth diapers. 

So what does homeschooling and diapers have to do with each other? I have decided to add making our own cloth diapers into our schooling!  The younger ones can learn to read some simple patterns, and do some very easy straight stitching.  And, if they make a mistake, what will it harm?  No one inspects hems and seams on diapers!  I have been searching for different ideas and patterns.  One site I have found is simply titled, Sew Your Own Diapers, and gives free patterns for a Quick & Easy Fitted Diaper, and an All in One Diaper (includes soaker & covering).  Another on-line gal, Cindie, shares her story of how she began with making cloth diapers, also has a free fitted diaper pattern, AND a wool butt sweater!

A real plus with this site, is the gal gives the option of buying instructions and patterns for ten diaper patterns.  I decided to buy this, to not only help teach the girls to sew, but I just LOVE diapering a new little baby!  It will be fun to let the stack of these little diapers increase.  As several of these sites have shown, we can use material we have around the house – old towels, t-shirts, receiving blankets, flannel nighties, etc. 

This is just another one of the wonderful things about homeschooling and incorporating our situations and needs into our education.  Presently our kids are helping "grow the baby" making mom her cravings.  HomeEc class begins September 5th!

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