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could be like TeeJay & Melissa and say, I was just teasing about revealing the room today. This happened NUMEROUS times to us throughout the week of the locked door! One of them would come upstairs or send one of our children up saying, "Want to see the room?" Of course, I would light up and jump for the opportunity, only to get a big smirkey response, " CAN’T ! " So, I thought of having pictures below that you would have to click to see the picture, to get some silly picture, but I won’t do that.
Our oldest son is actually finishing up the doorknob in this picture, taken before we came in, but this was just a real neat, touching surprise. Melissa took black & white pictures of each of the children, and scanned one of Matthew’s and put them all in these black frames. The middle picture is blank, for a family picture after the baby is born. They also gave us the table and painted it. The picture on the right side on the table is our reception picture also done in black and white. The rocking chair we have had since before our oldest one was born.
If you were wondering a few days ago when I showed the projects TeeJay was working on, this was another major surprise, with such thought and love put into it. Our headboard we have now looks like it’s from the 1960’s – a big clunky, dark wood one in a bookshelf style. I had seen in a magazine a wall that was done like the headboard above, and the bed put against it. One of our girls snuck the picture to TeeJay, and he made this headboard. It is beautiful! The black candleabras will go on the walls next to it.
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The molding that TeeJay put together is such a God-given talent that we were blessed he used in our bedroom. This was not crown molding he bought, but that he pieced and put together. Our children said each corner piece he did took over an hour to make. When we have tried to thank TeeJay, he has repeatedly told us, he is "God’s feet and hands" doing this work.
And here is my husband (left), oldest son, young excited daughter, and TeeJay & Melissa. As we expressed our concerns to them in not being able to repay them, TeeJay touched us with his own Mastercard commercial:
A tank of gas: $50
A lifetime friendship
PRICELESS
We can get emotional thinking of how this bedroom came about. We certainly would prefer that things did not change in our home two years ago, with the death of our son. Yet, God sent His healing rain through this couple and our children. When I have shared with others personally about this, the part I have the hardest time holding the tears back from is another major change that came to this bedroom. When Norm & I worked on this bedroom, it was an emotional job that just could not be completed. There was not joy when we were doing it. When TeeJay & Melissa worked on it with our children we heard something coming from that bedroom we have not heard in over two years from that room . . . laughter, singing, music, voices with joy. There is a changed beautiful room with new memories made and to be made. There is not the hesitation from the children to go into this new room. There’s sparks of joy that’s contagious.
PRICELESS
12-18-06 Our Extreme Bedroom Makeover Begins
12-21-06 Still Locked Out of Our Bedroom
12-26-06 Extreme Bedroom Makeover – Remodeling
12-27-06 Extreme Bedroom Makeover – The Progression